Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Why Down syndrome?

I (Miranda) grew up with a childhood friend, Ashley, whom I loved very much. Ashley so happened to have Down syndrome, and was a major influence on my early life.
When Zack and I had a son born with special needs, we formed a support system of other parents whom had children with special needs, and that is how we met our best friend, Amy, who has an adult son with Down syndrome, and 3 younger boys adopted from Russia. Amy's little boys are our godsons, and all of her boys are very much members of the family. Each one is very different, but such beautiful, precious innocent souls, and we love them.
we are experienced with special needs, both from our own children and through our godsons, and we feel well prepared and very blessed to welcome a wonderful little person into our lives.

Random pics of everyone. It may be another insight into our characters how few photos there really are of the 2 grown-ups. We both hate to have our picture taken, but we take TONS of pics of the kiddos! LOL



I am searching for words here to try and introduce myself and my family. This is one of the hardest things that I have ever had to do, and I write a lot. To describe my family is something I don't think I have ever tried to do, and I don't want to simply give statistics. I really would like to welcome you in and give you alla real sense of us. Of who we are.
I guess that I'll start with me, first. I'm Miranda, and I am a very quirky, introverted stay at home mom. In a lot of ways I'm a walking contradiction. Given a list of my favorite things, it would go something like this: Babies, daisies, zombies, fine art, cartoons, poetry, horror novels, cooking, baking, lame one-liner jokes, Church, and European club music and stickers.
My husband Zack and I have been married for 13 years now (sense my 18th birthday, as a matter of fact) He is a hard-working, good man who loves his family and loves God. He is not at home very much, but he takes good care of us and makes us feel very safe and secure.
I love my kids with all my heart, and we genuinely have a lot of fun together. Kyah is my oldest at 11 years old, and he is honestly my best friend. We love a lot of the same things, and we hang out together all the time. On any given Saturday night, you will see us sitting together eating candy, drinking sodas and watching movies while laughing our heads off at each others sarcastic commentary. He is highly intelligent and mature for his age, and a wonderful helpful, loving big brother to his younger siblings.
His attention is very much in demand, and he is very patient and never complains about sharing his time with the littler guys.
Frankie is my second oldest son at age 9, and Frankie is my eye opener, my whole world changed when he was born. and not in any sort of negative way. Born with Autism and chromosomal duplications, Frankie is completely non verbal and functions like a very mobile and active 1 year old. He is a sweet happy boy who is into everything all the time. Raising Frankie has been the most beautiful, spiritual experience of my life, and I wouldn't trade it for anything. My mother says that I changed the day he was born. I don't know if that's true or not, but he is definitely my muse, and I'm always writing poetry about him.
Kary is my 3rd son, and Kary is all boy, that's for sure. His speech is limited due to autism, but he is a tough little fella who loves trains, trucks, monsters and bugs. He is feisty, sweet, and tons of fun. He walks around the house like a boss,is quirky little personality keeps us all laughing.
Noe, age 4, is our oldest daughter, and I never dreamed that I would have a daughter like this. Total princess. Noe is a sweet, giggly, prissy little girl-y girl who loves hello kitty, my little pony and all things pink and sparkly. She is full of spunk and personality, and is honestly the only one of my kids that has any little bit of a mean-streak at all. No too bad, though, but she does like to tease. One of the very smallest members of the family, no doubt, but this girl is definitely in charge here!
Kira is our youngest ate age 16 months, and Miss kitty, as we all call her, is the sweetest baby ever. No joking, no exaggeration, she just radiates sweet all over the place. Kira is shy, quiet, emotionally delicate, and very, very timid. She's a beautiful baby, and I feel kind of sorry for strangers who approach her when we go out to eat or to a store. They always get a very unsatisfying reaction (either a dirty look or out-right tears) but the 6 of us who she knows and loves are so, so lucky. She makes it very clear that she loves each one of us with her whole heart, and she makes it impossible not to love her back with extravagance.
This is a little glimpse into our family. Not much, I know, but at least I feel as though it's an honest one. Thank you for the time and the interest that led you to read it to this point, and please know that whether or not our lives are to be forever tied together through this beautiful child, I will always love you for that.